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Accepting a difficult situation from God without giving Him a deadline to remove it

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“And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope.”

Romans 5:3–4

The operational definition of patience is “accepting a difficult situation from God without giving Him a deadline to remove it.” Difficult situations, along with pain and suffering, are consequences of the Fall of man. These include natural disasters such as hurricanes and earthquakes, as well as results of unwise decisions or sinful choices. Some difficulties are brought about by the intentions of evil people who are serving Satan in his opposition to God. When experiencing circumstances that we do not like and cannot control, we must endure patiently. In time, the trial will pass. God encourages our hearts and strengthens our faith through difficult situations. He gives us grace to endure hardships and become more like Jesus as we trust and yield to Him.

A patient person will accept the season of life that he is in, fulfill his responsibilities, and wait on God’s timing for a new season.

A restless passenger on a family vacation may say, “Are we there yet?” instead of redirecting his energy to enjoy the journey.

The opposite of patience is restlessness. A restless person is unable to calm his heart because he is not trusting God. He may try to control a situation or act impulsively. Rather than accept his circumstances, he may resent them and complain, directing anger and blame toward those he holds responsible for his predicament. Because he is anxious, he will not graciously wait or endure through distress. Even normal delays or disruptions are trials to him. He may become frustrated with a sister who is taking too long to get ready, or he may burn his tongue on some hot chocolate because he is unwilling to wait for it to cool. The restless person may often be told to “slow down” or “relax!” Peace will come more readily to the impatient person as he believes that God is good, loving, and in control.

Evaluare personală

Do I love God and expect Him to work all things for good in every situation?
Do those who know me well sense in me a quick-tempered, anxious spirit or a joyful, restful one?
Am I trusting God to answer my prayers in His time, not mine?
Do I continue to do my responsibilities while anticipating a future activity?
When praying, do I pause, wait, and listen for God to speak?
Do I rejoice in God through trials instead of becoming bitter?
Am I forbearing, gracious, and forgiving toward others?
Am I willing to wait to speak, rather than interrupt a conversation?
Do I acknowledge God’s sovereignty in difficulties and by faith praise Him for what He is doing through the situation?

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“No one will ever know the full depth of his capacity for patience and humility as long as nothing bothers him. It is only when times are troubled and difficult that he can see how much of either is in him.”

St. Francis of Assisi

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Transformarea are loc atunci când privim la Domnul și ne bizuim pe lucrarea Duhului Sfânt în viețile noastre. „Noi toți privim cu fața descoperită, ca într-o oglindă, slava Domnului și suntem schimbați în același chip al Lui, din slavă în slavă, prin Duhul Domnului” (2 Corinteni 3:18). Văzând caracterul lui Dumnezeu în mărturia Scripturii, creștem în înțelegere și ascultare de Cuvântul Său. Iată zece aspecte vis-a-vis de Răbdare precum și versetele biblice care stau la baza lor:

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Expect Him to work in unexpected ways.

“But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him. But God hath revealed them unto us by his Spirit: for the Spirit searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God.” I Corinthians 2:9–10

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Rest in His timing.

“Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass.” Psalm 37:7

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Rejoice in trials.

“My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience.” James 1:2–3

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Accept the things I cannot change.

“Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: everywhere and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” Philippians 4:11–13

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Wait on Him to change my circumstances.

“Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord.” Psalm 27:14

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Wait for the right time to speak.

“But when they deliver you up, take no thought how or what ye shall speak: for it shall be given you in that same hour what ye shall speak.” Matthew 10:19 “Set a watch, O Lord, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips.” Psalm 141:3

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Use waiting time productively.

“Walk in wisdom toward them that are without, redeeming the time.” Colossians 4:5

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Avoid restlessness.

“Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me.” John 14:1 “Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.” Psalm 46:10

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Give others room to grow.

“We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves.” Romans 15:1

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Wait in hope.

“I wait for the Lord, my soul doth wait, and in his word do I hope.” Psalm 130:5 “For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for? But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it.” Romans 8:24–25

Povestire biblică

The Long Wait and the Unexpected Visitor

“And a certain man was there [pool of Bethesda], which had an infirmity thirty and eight years.”

John 5:5

Jesus often gave answers or worked in ways that people did not expect. He called unlikely candidates to be His disciples. At a wedding in Galilee, Jesus performed a miracle which surprised the host. In the Temple, Jesus observed clerks and merchants cheating the people who came to pay temple taxes or buy animals for sacrifice. With zeal for His Father’s house and authority, Jesus startled everyone as He overturned money tables and drove out the animals, declaring His Father’s house was a house of prayer. Once, Jesus gave perplexing answers to the questions from a nighttime visitor. On His return to Galilee, Jesus rested at a well in Samaria where He proclaimed the Kingdom of God. This amazed His disciples, since Jews did not customarily speak to Samaritans. In Galilee, a certain nobleman begged Jesus to come to his house to heal his dying son. But Jesus had a different solution. He told the nobleman to return home, and he would find his son well. The man believed Jesus, and his son was healed! Afterward, as many Jews entered Jerusalem for a feast, Jesus approached a pool called Bethesda near the Temple. Whom would Jesus notice there? In what unexpected way would Jesus respond to a need?

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Analogie în natură

Monarch Butterfly

When the chrysalis of a monarch butterfly finally splits open after ten days of waiting, the butterfly must quickly free itself. After emerging from the chrysalis, the butterfly pumps fluid from its abdomen into its wings to expand them. The butterfly must then wait several hours for its wings to dry before it can take off.

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Manuale ilustrate, cu învățături biblice despre caracter (En)

Manualele ilustrate, cu învățături biblice despre caracter, folosesc exemple din viața unor bărbați și femei din Biblie, a căror umblare cu Dumnezeu a dus la un caracter bun sau a căror lipsă de credință a produs un caracter slab.

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